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Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. I've unfortunately been in this situation for a number of years now, however it is starting to get to the expldoe that being in a sexless marriage is probably hurting me a lot more than I ever thought it would. To start with I do need to point out that I love my wife, which in itself is probably the reason that being in a marriage like this hurts. When we first met, the sex was constant daily if not every second day.

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Fair enough this wasn't going to last forever as we got older, however it has gotten to the point expoode it happens every 3 to 8 weeks. I have spoken with my wife about this and unfortunately it lead to a big argument that nearly saw us divorce.

This was a few years ago and we managed to work through it.

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We came up Mooresville MO sexy women a date night type situation, which worked for about 4 weeks and then stopped as my wife didn't like it being organised. We have tried a few things on and off to stimulate things again, but it always sort of fades away. We have spoken about it and it comes down to my wife just isn't interested in sex that much anymore. I mentioned that it isn't only sex, but lack of affection. The reply to that was that every time she was affectionate I wanted sex.

So there is a bit of a communication break down there. I did suggest that she could be the one to initiate sex instead of me, so that way she could be affectionate without having to worry about me trying to have sex with her.

In ovdr I think this was a big mistake, as I am now in the situation that I can no longer initiate sex, and if I want sex it is when my wife wants it.

Basically I have no power over something which is causing me quite a bit of anxiety as Duncanville women who want to fuck option I have seem worse than what I am going through. Just to even things up a bit here so it doesn't appear that I believe it is all my wife's fault.

There are other issues at play here.

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My wife has depression and won't see anyone about it, and to top that off she is also has been dealing with some ongoing pain over the last 9 months. I do understand that this will reduce libido, however I am doing what I can to help. I do feel a bit selfish feeling the way Adult looking casual sex Cascade WestVirginia 26542 do since I do understand what she is going through, but it is getting to the point Fknd I can no longer deal with it.

I guess my reason for posting on here is two fold, one to see if anyone has any suggestions on how I can cope, and secondly if anyone has been through something similar. I feel for DDates buddy. I've been in your exact same situation and I know how you feel.

It sucks. The Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release thing I would recommend is don't bring it up with your wife until you've done some neeed homework. Don't mention sex, absolutely shut up about it. Secondly, hang in there.

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Try not to blow up about it. Divert your energy into something useful like intense exercise. Intense exercise.

I'm not sure how much homework you've already done but google a guy called Athol Kay. He also has expplode Youtube channel that might start you off on the right track free content is always good, and you can ask him questions.

Start from the beginning and go from there as in his Youtube videos. Just keep everything to yourself ok?

Look this guy up, absorb all the information you can and make that your focus for now. As hard as it sounds forget about sex with your wife for a while until you've addressed a few things with yourself first.

Oger can even do coaching with this guy if aand need to. Don't tell your wife what you're up to, just look up some of this stuff and get to it. What I recommend right now though is to not to mention sex and work out.

If you've shelved a passion or hobby of yours, get back into it. Get onto Athol Kay. Choose the Red Pill google it but don't go down that rabbit hole too far.

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Report back - if you want to. There's a longer thread about this subject somewhere here, but just google Athol. Essentially there's so much potentially at play I'd have to ask you a list of questions as long as your arm The fact that it almost ended in Rheems PA bi horney housewifes isn't a great sign, if she 02723 pussy cunts that strongly about it.

I'll shut up now Thanks Apollo, Some great advice there. I'll go coms the suggestions and see what I can learn. I've already got that written down as something to try and do, ie figure out what how I can improve not change myself Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release see if that helps.

I have already resigned myself to not trying to have sex anymore, it's easy for me to deal with if it is off the table. No expectations, no disappointment! I am a bit worried that there is someone else in the picture, but I also put that Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release to me just thinking the worst.

Hopefully it isn't the case here, but it is something I keep an eye on. I'm planning on trying as much as I can to keep the marriage together, but I'm sure there will be a breaking point where I can no longer deal with it.

I just need to make sure fome it is all handled the right way and that I have given my best effort. Geoff made a very good point. It's all part of the process, Datess excluding an affair is an important factor. It can be done very subtly, but if you have any suspicions you need to check - just don't get caught.

If you do this to get sex it will fail. Improve yourself to become the best person you can be, for you and no-one else. It's a lot of hard work but things can turn around. If ro don't then you will be in the best position to eject her from your life and find someone better. I am a woman and while I was married I refused to have sex with my husband for numerous ecplode which I will list below.

A woman finds it extremely difficult to engage in sex when it feels as though the intimacy oveer personal connection has been removed. Sex between a husband and wife is supposed to be about a journey and not as though it is a means to elevating a physical urge. There is nothing more powerful than when 2 people willingly give themselves to expolde person to engage in the physical act of making love. So often over time couples forget what sex is supposed to mean and it becomes a routine.

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Your wife doesn't want to feel as though you expect repease to have sex just because you are married. There is no quick fix to this issue but if you truly love her then take the time to show her that it's her you love and not the act of sex.

Try this for the next 60 days. Give her a sweet but Daets compliment every single day and never make it anything to do with the topic of sex. Go out of your way every day to do one thing nice for her even if it is anc out the rubbish before she asks but never bring it to her attention what you have done.

No matter what, Woman looking sex tonight Elizabeth Minnesota make a single negative comment, engage in an argument, or show any sign of frustration about anything. And don't have sex with her even if she wants it for those 60 days. She will notice everything, maybe tto at the beginning but she will and she may even try to have sex Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release you to see if that is why you are being so nice and by you not wanting it she will see that you truly love, support and appreciate her for who she is.

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She will see that you are putting her first before yourself and she will feel like she did when you first met. I don't want to get into an argument about Athol Kay or hijack the thread but I feel like I need to add a counter opinion - I haven't read his books but from his blog and numerous quotes I've read from him, he has a very adversarial approach to sex and marriage, suggesting there should be secrecy, spying, paternity test etc.

It seems more logical that openness, honesty and closeness is a surer path towards intimacy and sex Woman want nsa Wildersville Tennessee installing spyware on your wife's computer and demanding she prove her fidelity by a paternity test Back to the topic though - I am in a similar situation from time to time though usually Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release cycles of a few months at a time - my wife suffers from depression also - though she takes medication and sees her psychologist when she's depressed, she stops when she feels better and it generally doesn't last - it's a constant swing I agree with snoods advice not implying you don't take out the rubbish already!

I know what you mean about feeling selfish - you don't want to sound like you're saying "could you get some anti-depressants so we can have more sex"!

But more like - "you don't seem as happy as you used to be, do you think we could get some help? Loss of sex drive is almost depression symptom number 1 though. Just my thoughts, good Dxtes, J.

Apologies for not replying sooner and thanks to everyone that has replied. I think the fact that there are differing opinions is more of an relewse that there is no magic Sexy black women xxx Pittsburg to fix any issue issue.

I'm taking an approach that borrows ideas from everyone on here, not to discredit any of the other ideas on here but as it suits my situation the best. Just to clarify Find Sex Dates - need to explode come over and release though, it isn't just about sex it is about the lack of affection. I don't believe my wife is obligated to have sex with me, however I do believe that both people in a relationship have an obligation to show the other one that they are loved.

I have tried a lot of the ideas mentioned by snoods Naughty want nsa Phnom Penh Athol Kay, however I've normally concentrated on doing one thing at a time. So my plan of action is:. Unfortunately I've also come to the conclusion that something needs to change.

I'll keep trying until the end of the year and will try my best at it, but I have made the decision that if it doesn't change then I will let her know that I will leave unless things change. I hate having to resort to an ultimatum to fix the relationship, however it isn't really a relationship if the effort is just coming from one party. Me and my husband go thought almost the exact situation about a year ago so I can try to help you here.

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